Ok I decided to go out tonight (and u know alst friday I ounched some guy in the face twice for grabbing me than got loose and ran while the boucner also tried grabbing me), anyway I tried going itno the same bar tonight and the bouncer said "ur not welcome abck in here" and I replied "I jsut want to see if someone is here u know I dont know who I hit but someone grabbed me" and he said "No I saw the whole thing u were tlaking to me than shoved that other guy and socked him in the face and ran" I than tried explaining exactly what happened and told him "I was tlaking to you here seeying if I could use the restroom ebfor eu close and someone grabbed me out of the blue and started shoving me abckwards so i hit him" and ehs like "ur not welcome back" and I said fine and left.

ANyway later on I was standing near there, and this old guy around 60 kept starring at me and I said "whats up" trying to be friendly and he replied get away form me" than I said "why is that " or "why should I?" and he mumbled something liek "because" and I said "you kept starring at me thats why i said whats up" than he walked away to his group of two other younger guys and some woman and kept saying "IM gonna kick that guys a@@ he said whats up to me for no reaon and I was like egt away from me he pisses me off" and I kept trying not to make eye contact and had all this energy in me while kept focusing on what Id do if they come at me. What pisses me off is if I was really a tough guy adn confident Id either have charged all 3 of thjem rgiht than or said "why r u talking behind my back if u got something tos ay say it right here" or "r u tlaking about me what did u jsut say?" liek those women onr elaity shows do. Anyway, after awhile I left and he kept starring at me and I stood away for a bit and when i was far enough he said "Yea I see ur ight there" and I noticed he was right next to one of his freinds or guys in that group both looking at me and replied "than why dont u come ehre" than he said to the guy next to him 'what did he just say?" and I started panicking a bit cause I dont ahev confidence in my fgithing abiltiies esp against more than one eprsona dn tried wlaking to where my back isnt blocked by a car or other ppl to themiddle of the street cause if they come at me than i knew Id have mroe roomk for hti adn run adn footwork.

Anyway one of them 9not the old guy but one in the gorup) started coming my way and I noticed a cop coming so I started crossing the street and waited for him to come at me than planned to fight on the blind alley on the other side of the street not the mains treet where we were at cause too many cops and peopel around. But hje and the old guy nto far behind him isntead were standing inf ront of some pizza place eithe rlookign for me thinking I went in there or just standing there so i decided to leave. I made a whole circle around the block back across form the mainstreet with all the bars and walke don the toher side of the street and whenI thought the old guy looked my way i gave him the finger and kind of hoped to lure them at me casue no one was around there to join in or blind side me or just get in the way. He didnt do anything, and Im kind of pissed I didnt stay put and talked mroe crap to get them to come at me cause tis like in tai chi "you have to invest in loss to gain". Sure I mgiht have ended up brusied up fighting 3 at ocne but in the end incesting in that loss would be worth it if I even had a chance of glory by beating 3 ppl at once.

the other reaosn I started wlaking away to the edge of the street (corner) where I had my back to the cross street and not cars or pplw as I didnt want it to go down in feont of the same spot I fought last week and risk those bouncers going at me as well.

after I saw they werent in front of the pizza store before crossing the street I also went to the side and tried to see them and get them to see me and know im not afraid. Though I did have alot of fear in me cause this situation reminded me of that one time where those high school kids messed my fac eup where i couldnt eat for a week and later I stbabed one of them and fought another and they aslo broke my car windows. But there were alot less ppl this time (only 3 men) and they didnt come at me liek those hs kids. The thing is I kind of felt bad about fighting some guy who might be a senior citizen but gave him an opporunity to come at me.

actually I only started walking away from the main part of the intial stuff when he was talking to his friends how hes gonna beat me because partly I was scared and partly it was in front of that other bar I hit some guy last week, but than Iw asnt at a street corner yet just kind far enough for them to see me than when one of them started coming toward me and ended up in front of the pizza palce I tried crossing the street tog et him to fgiht me alone where no one was around and away form the cop car that was passing. ANyway the old guy reminded me of John Springer form bullshido/kungfumagazine forums/etc.

hoodie enfocer in traffic: http://www.break.com/index/road-rage-knock-out.html

Man, you seriously need a positive friend and a counselor.

Are you sure you have the right forum?

Needs typing lessons too! Gives me a headache trying to read the post.
Avoid bars brother. At the very least avoid alcohol, sounds like you two do not play well together!
Jake

You guys shouldn't bother acknowledging his ramblings. If you look at Enforcer's posts a couple years ago, there were not as many typos. Apparently, he's going through a confused time in his life. Happens to a lot a people. He'll come around, but not if you keep feeding his need for approval or whatever.

I need a girl thats what I need. Im 23 and never even really had a gf before. ANyway how was any of that my fault when i tried being ncie and respectful until I was dissed?

Having a gf will make you react better when being dissed? lol.

enforcer, take your ass to college, get smart, get a job, get money and the women will come...

...no money, no honey.

I do go to college. ANd I want them to want me for who I am not my money. Might as well pay for it and egt hookers than.

3 things a guy our age needs in order to pull a girl.

a job

a car

the ability to listen for hours on end.

when you are talking to a girl, make sure its all about her,get her to talk about herself, what she's interested in, etc, then go off of that.

you cant go talking about getting in fights or anything like that, you cant intimidate the girl or else she will lose interest.

you have to be funny, clever, intelligent, and buy her stuff like milkshakes and •••• like that.

are you that deformed???

If you're just interested in getting laid than yeah, all you need is some money and play the role & do stuff that appeals to a woman's ego. A lot of them have been conditioned through romance books and tv on how relationships are supposed to be. However, Enforcer seems to be looking for a little more. Its funny though, if you can learn to be happy with who you are and with what you got, you may find things falling into place for you including girls. Don't be so serious about stuff.

I dont have a job though, I only go to college and it takes alot of my time cause I have liek 5 classes plus this newspaper writing lab class where I write an article weekly and itnerview 3 ppl so thats kind of like a job but i aint getting paid yet (doing it for experience and credit).

anyway alot of ppl dont have jobs around ehre the unemplyment is like over 7 percent cause iots a fairly small college town and I noticed alot of gamers are even in worse off than me like never go to school just play games and live with roomates while paying small rent with a not much paying job or live at home and never do anything like school even:
http://www.neogaf.com/forum/showthread.php?t=238123

however I dont egt how people survive whose parents or fmaily doesn't help them and they dont have previous funds, I mean the loans and such are too low to buy books/tuition/and cost of living for an entire semester, and jobs pay little most of the time unless your educated.

http://www.1up.com/do/newsStory?cId=3166092