I was sitting with these people I just met cause this girl who was a friend of this girl who my friend was with brought us to them to this bar and one was hostile to my friend but he played it off cause hes asian and a foreigner. Anyway after awhile this bartender brought some shots for free to the table and put one in front of me and I grabbed it and the guy next to me said it wasnt for me and I cant drink it. I aske dhim why he was being hostile towards me and he started talking crap a bit to me. After awhile I just said •••• you got up and left, and left my friend there hoping hed later leave too. Anyway, what would u guys have done. Drank the shot and risk getting beat up by multiple people and embarassing urself in front of girls, or said something else or what?

you did the right thing man, good job.

you should've told your friend and the girls to come with you though

well they were one of those girls friends and he was so into that girl I doubt hed have left but he probably found out and left himself since not long after he told me he was at home cause I bet they started tlaking crap about me or to him as I left. ANyway I almost felt I was going too far and kind of risking it or luring the guy for saing fuk youto him before leaving. I almsot expected him to challenge me or follow me out with his friends. It was as if I kind of challenged him to go after me or do something. A thing I could have done was to Stick a pinky and twirl it in there and say to him "go head u can have it". I just didnt want to be the ahole to dirnk it if it really wasnt mine but I wasnt sure, I should have told him "bring the bartender overe here if u say u know him and make him tell me it is to the other guy than if its not for me" but I think he wouldnt have agreed and Id end up getting cussed out or beaten up by all 3-4 of them in the end cause people act tough when they are dirnk and hostile.

just dont let it get to you man, its hard, but its a challenge.

there are always gonna be times and people like that, the best thing to do is avoid them, and avoid confrontation.

its always best to minimize your problems.