Who started fighting me and his friends jumped in and beat me sensless. I'm gonna buy pepper spray and spray him and his friends around him (cause I know the neighborhood he lives and never seen him walk alone he always has at least one person with him and constantly watches around him). Once he becomes in agony I will start hitting him and beating him to a pulp since his friend wont be able to fight back at me nor he really and it will be a lot less risky and safe than if I just went in swinging or stabbing him. Do u guys think this is a good plan? I wont be any cheaper than he is with his buddies constantly watching his back. I also don't think confront him and challening him would work since the last time they smashed my car and I punched him I tried confronting him at first by asking if his name was so and so and he denied it and tried walking away from me before I got close.

you win some, you lose some buddy.

Move on with your life.

Why not use that energy to do something that's going to really enhance your life?

Go to college

Help at at a local elementary school

Serve at a homeless shelter

Go to a library or bookstore

Get another part-time job

Get counseling

Every single choice you make in life is doing one of 3 things: 1) pushing you backwards 2) taking you forward 3) keeping you in the same place you are now

Every single choice you make in life is doing one of 3 things: 1) pushing you backwards 2) taking you forward 3) keeping you in the same place you are now.

I like that. A very straight forward plane of thought.

I cant move on. I am obsessed with getting revenge on all the ppl who did me in somehow before. I just have to beocome tough in life I dont want to go through life being scared or not knowing if I have what it takes to deal with problems such as these or others that can happen if I cant even deal with this. Like for instance what if someone kills someone I know or something, I have to be prepared mentally for a sutiation such as this to have what it takes.

"...I am obsessed with getting revenge on all the ppl who did me in somehow before..."

As long as you are still obessed with getting revenge...your enemies will win.

If this obsession is keeping you from progressing in life, then your enemy has done a great job.

It's only when you are not afraid to move on that you truly gain your revenge.

Many times people do not have the courage or belief in one's self to look beyond the suffering around them.

Do you have the courage to join the military?

That would be a great and productive use of your energy.

....getting revenge on all the people who....

is great motivation for getting your life together and creating such an awesome future for yourself that those 'ppl' will all be embarassed and ashamed that they treated you badly. (that was motivation for folks like Lee Iaccoca, Jim Carey, George Foreman, and many, many more sucessful folks.)

Of course you could chose to 'be like' those who did you wrong, keeping yourself trapped as merely a player in the game they started.

All you need to realize is that the choice is yours... and so is the end result.

Shane

I am thinking of joining the military

Airforce.

Enforcer you seem so set in your ways. You seem obsessed with "The Black Guy" in many of your posts. Perhaps subliminally you have a bit of what Spike Lee calls "Jungle Fever"?

Good luck, Robert.

It truly is an excellent place to start.

I think you should get:

A really big pot
Some potato's
Some carrots
Some delicious spices

Then you should cook that guy you hate up in a stew, and eat the stew in front of all his homeies. While you eat the stew, let it pour down the sides of your mouth, and onto your shirt. Take a big mouth full and proclaim in your loudest, most dramatic voice, I am now king of the cannibal people, I have eaten the flesh of your leader. Bow before me.

I'm pretty sure they'll all get down and chant your name as they bow, as they know you have eaten the magic of their leader.

Then you should pack up all your d8's, carefully fold up your character sheet. Thank Timmy's mother for the treats, and use of the "dungeon" space. Thank your "DM" for the wicked great campaign. Go home, put away your books, and sleep well.

And really master touching your toes.

Avoid conflict. Be like Bruce Lee in Enter the Dragon where he puts that guy on the boat just as he wants to fight him...

Ok, was that too corny...?

MikeC