I know not all asians are like them so this isn't a racist thing or anything, but these are similar traits I noticed in many Chinese people over the years.

Anyway, Ive been hanging out with this Chinese guy for a while because I was new in town and he was the only person I really knew for a while and he grew up ever since he turned 10 in Italy so I thought he'd be kind of Italian. And I helped him stay at my place for a couple of days and my momk even took him to the airport when she came in to town to visit, we drov ehim all the way 3 hours away to an airport. Anyway, when he came back he kind of showed appretiation by giving me some liquor from italy and some small things like that, so I continued to hang out with him once in a while depsite not liking his friends very much and them not liking me very much.

The thing I found strange is he continued to call me to take him to ebst buy and walmart when he needed a new phone card or to get something done, but would not call me for like a week straight to do anything and continue hanging around those friends I didnt like. So If elt it was more of a relaitonship of him needing me, not wanting to hang out. But I eventually told him straight out one time after he called me like 8 times in a row where I didnt awnser to my cell phone, and told him 'whats up man, do you want me to take you again to best buy is that why you are claling me?" he denied it right away and asked to do some other stuff like go out or something, so I continued to hang out with him and forgot about it.

Anyway, when I called him to go to the gym (where I have some free passes I give him to get in and we train some martial arts and swim) and said that another friend is coming who I already called and asked him "is that cool man?" he was like "oh noo man noo, just me and you no one else should go" I told him the other friend recently started claling me and inviting me to some cool parties and was cool with me. I stopped my relations with him since that time he said this last night because I realized he's done this before. He constantly expects me to hang out with his group of friends who I dont particularly like or they me, and often doesnt even tell me hes with them but says to come to him, but when i want to hang out with someone else he seems to have a problem meeting people. One time this Polish friend called me saying some Polish guys in town are here and want to meet me and I was with him and this other skinny chiense guy he brought with him to best buy without even telling me, and he said "I dont wnat to really go there and leave ewaay by himself hes not 21 so he has to stay outside in the cofee shop." I told him that its not gonna be for too long and he claimed they will speak Polish with me and he wont understand and I told him that he speaks chinese all the time where I cant understand or Italian and he claimed that its not true and he speaks a lot more enlgish now or some crap being in denial.

The other thing is when I call him he almost always says he's busy or has to go to sleep early, or some other crap. And continuously tries to be a goody goody by never drinking or telling everyone he's giving up drinking at all (like making a huge deal out of it when he enevr really drank to begin with) and when we go out he often just wants to go home out of the blue and expects me to drive him all the way back and come back and waste all that time while Im alrelady having a good time and want to stay (but when hes with his other friends or some American prepsy girl he somehow hooked up with and claimed almost slept with once he stays up all night). Hes always portraying this like saint image of himself or something, and when I make a joke at him or say hes being a baby because we used to train martial arts and he would always quit due to saying his arm is hurt or his little nail got some cut undernearth barely visible he would call me a bastard (but I wouldnt say anything back do to thinking his language barrier makes him say that not realizing what it really means).

He also always claims things like, "IM at the libary on campus again at night, you canc ome ehre if you want its very intellectual atmosphere" and some lame jokes like that always trying to protray a saint and intellectual like a lot of those other chinese people that come here form rich families. Except he wasnt really even raised there and isnt that rich, if he was he wouldnt hav e to try relying on me to take him everywhere and get a cab.

Oh and his list of friends include that preppy wantint o learn italian girl who my mom said she didnt like at the beginning due to how she thanked my mom for taking him to the airport and talking to my mom like he was her little brother or something. And I didnt like either due to her attitude problem.

A skinny chiense guy named Eway who used to also try getting me to give him rides everywhere like form a party or place we were together at before I cut off contact. Who would allow me to give him a ride to the mall and buy a big pizza and eat it right in front of me without offering me a slice, who would also constantly have to be right and argue over anything ranging form history to politics.

An Argentinian guy who also constantly tried getting me to buy pitchers at bars without having to pitch in, and fighting for every dollar when I satrted rebelling and negotioating beforehand payment in bars. True I drank a lot of his wine and stuff when I came to his place but the fact he always concentrates on me when buying alcohol rather than the other people or the skinny udneraged chinese guy ewaay who despite always tkaing a glass at say a pizza place doesnt even bother to throw in a buck. Who also one time told me to find someone else to join in their soccer game after that main guy this thread is about invited me to go over there.

Basically that's pretty much it, also they enevr say anything bad about China or criticise communism or China in any way. One time that skinny tall chinese guy eeway explained that "either the chinese government is lying or the tibetans are lying that's it no more" trying to take the subject away form criticism of the chinese by others.

The thing about CHinese people is they always try to portray intellectuals and tight a@@es and conservatives, and never criticise their country and always speak chiense and hang out in groups, am I the only one to notice this? They also never criticise each other or other chinese people but will other ethnicities.

and they over-starch.

ENFORCER! how do you do it? how can you type this long! but thank you i have something to read

Meth is a hell of a drug.

Gung Hey Faat Choy

Well what kind of a relationship is that with someone when they constantly hang out with people I dont want to be around and call me despite being with those people or sometimes invite me somewhere and not telling me they are there, and when I tell him that my American friend is coming to the gym with us or something he backs out? He doesnt want to hang out with my friends or get to know other people but expects me to be with his buddies buddy buddy.

The other thing is I told this other Chinese guy about this and started talking about why I dont like that guy's Argentinian friend and he said something to the effect of "why are you saying this when he's not here" I took it as him asking me why are you talking about him behind his back (not what I thought later he might have meant why do you care if he's not around) and realized that hes just as bad since earlier he was telling me he doesnt like one of my female cousins and said she lied (so he's being hypocrytical there if that is what he meant thinking).

I know exactly what kind of relationship that is, and it ryhmes with berry romosnectual.

B2

hairy solo vestibule ?

scary polo jester's dual ?

dairy mold o' fester's gruel ?

Nope. And it's not "Perry Como Sectional" either.

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ghey

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Is that Cantonese like
Gone Ghey Faat Boy?

So, catch me if I'm wrong here, you're making a conclusion about ALL Chinese people, because of what you've experienced with three of them?

are you disappointed that 'enforcer' is an idiot?

I guess it's more "surprised AT the idiocy."

well they do have a certain mentality and culture. I used to think people are about the same no matter where they are form but a lot of chinese people are the same it seems. Im talking about the early 20s crowd. I have a chinese professor in a class I recently started tkaing that seems real genuine and cool of a guy, but the internaitonal student population here from china or other places that were born in china seems to be exactly how I described here. Im not the only one who noticed this as even one of the language instructors criticised them (when I used to hang out with the skinny tall dude I described earlier she was talking to him once) that they always speak chinese in front of everyone and everywhere they go not caring to learn the culture or language here and not caring how people will perceive them.

They are also very obediant as a culture and serving. meaning whatever their government does or tells them they generally back it, this mentality stems from the imperial times imo.

Enforcer, you're taking your experience with a few people and expanding it into some pretty negative generalizations. We all come from cultures, and those cultures do influence us. But, clearly a "what's up with Chinese people" isn't a way to discuss it, if you want to stay civil. I'm sure it's insulting to Chinese readers here. It definitely is offensive to those of us who have Chinese friends and teachers.

If you spend any time in a major city, like New York, LA, Chicago or Atlanta, you'll see pretty quickly that people are people, for better or worse, no matter where they are from. It just takes some time to see that.

"if you want to stay civil"

I laughed so hard I swallowed a wad of gum I'd been working on for days.

Stephen, you ott to know enforcer by now. He invents and posts his junk just to get you dullards riled up. There's no way he's genuine.

B2

I'm ashamed to admit it, but this is the first Enforcer posting I've ever read! I think I've seen his name attached to the "Bum tried to stab me" classics, but I never actually read them.

Crap. That was the only pearl of wisdom I have and I gave it to a guy who's playing me!

As long as you didn't give a pearl of jizdom to a guy, you're forgiven.
(there, an attempt at humor, you may laugh now)

Bob#2

i am not saying that I read it either.

actually I am serious. I constantly get into altercations and weird situations. I got into one with a high school girl yesturday I might make a thread about who said wtf u looking at as I walked by and it almost went off but her being female saved her. Oh and about chinese people and your post, bottom line is I met Koreans before and they like to have fun, to drink, to act like people their age, and this isnt the case with Chinese. Every Chinese I met is all about being a pencil geek nerd and geek who pretends to be an intellectual but never actually created anything rather than reading other people's works and books who never have fun, party, drink, etc. and often take like 8 classes at a time depsite the fact the university at default only allows 7. They are squares plain and simple and are arrogant to boot.

Enforcer, the bottom line is that you're being narrow minded, and you're making insulting generalizations about people. The world is a lot bigger, and more diverse than your limited experience.

And yes, Bob2, I did laugh. Thanks!

I can't help wondering what all Chinese people think of you enforcer.

B2